emotions and people

People cannot make you feel anything, you feel what you want to feel, because of the thoughts that are going through your own mind.
Change your thoughts and you change your emotions.

I have learned not to stress myself over the choices others make with thier lifes. I have learned to focus completely on  what I'm going to do, on how I am going to live my life, and not how people are going about living thier lifes, unless it directly effects me in some way or shape.

I have learned to take advantage of opportunities, because sometimes the door doesn't knock twice.

I have learned that a good haircut, and getting your eyebrows done, can make a huge difference.

hijab

I hate when people understand something to be one way and then they tell people, what they beleive to be true the truth. like there is this one muslim brotha, as he calls himself, who claims that just because he doesn't believe khaimar, means head cover, it means that it's not islamic for muslim woman to cover to hair. anyway, I don't like it when people take things or put things in the religion, based on thier opinion. It's his opinion and the opinion of his supporters that don't beleive that muslim women must cover thier hair, that doesn't make it so. Instead of trying to convince people that muslim women don't need to were hijab, cover thier hair, by telling us that some of his supporters support his conclusions, he should find an Ayah in the Quran that says just that, or what would be translated to mean that. but he couldn't do that. so he is someone who calls himself muslim but doesn't actually follow it. only follows his opinion of islam. to each thier own. but his post got on my nerves.

Today is Wendsay and I have yet to hear back from my husband, I am going to try calling him or sending him a message tomorrow morning. I got a miss call on Saturday, but when I tried calling back I just got a busy signal. I know that he's going to be extremely busy these days, so I am going to send him a message tomorrow morning. I have sent him emails, but haven't gotten any reply, anyway, i don't know I hope that he's fine. I know that nothing concerning that Gas tank, accident affected him, as that happened on the first of Nov, and he called and talked to me on the third of Nov. but perhaps he knows people which it affected. I really don't know. I hope not. Inshallah khair.

I have been doing a lot of reading lately. I finished five books the first three days i got here, and finished two books today, and am about to finish reading another book.
I started reading Harry Potter----(the last book) the day before yesterday.
So the point is, I have been doing a lot of reading.