feelings, people, thoughts

Why do we try to change ourselves for people, while people never seem to change themselves for us? it's like we are supposed to change ourselves for them, but they feel like they need to change themselves for us, because we are just supposed to accept them the way that they are. I say, I am me, I will always be me, either you accept me as I am or you don't, end of story, I am sick and tired of bending over backwards just so people can accept me. I don't see them bending over backwards so I can accept them.
I am going to be myself, I am going to state my feelings as I feel them, and if someone is going to get angry, let them be angry,
because if they had any negative feelings they would let it be known right away.

happiness

I cannot change what has happened in the past, I can only move forward. so to obssess over something that has happened in the past, or has been said in the past, will do me no good. I just have to move on and move forward, and live for the moment.
I have spent too much of my time obssessing over something that has happened in the past, or has been said in the past, when really I should be focusing on the here and now.
if we could all put everything behind our backs and just move forward, actually no, putting things behind our backs would imply that we are still carrying those things with us, no we have to completely let go of them, because we cannot change them, we cannot do anything about them, we have to just let them go, and move on with our lives.
we have to live in the here and now, that is the only way we can be happy.

celeberties

Why is it that people only seem to want to help people they know. or they don't want to help at all. I am all for people helping people that they know, especially if those people really need to be helped. However, what is wrong with helping other people, if the people you know don't need help? Another thing that I never understand. Why is it that celeberties, well not all, but some, get things for free? I know its probably because the manufacturers know that if people see a celebertiy wearing something, its free promotion for them. because people will more likely be inclinded to buy the product if they see a celeberty wearing it. There's nothing wrong with using celeberties to promote something however, I think its wrong that they get those things for free when they can obviously afford to buy those things themselves, so why can't they let other people who make less money and can't afford to buy those things, a chance to model those things? Oh right because people are more likely to buy something if they see a celeberating wearing it. I mean it doesn't matter what it is, unless its something totatly crazy, like wearing slices of meat for example. Another thing I don't understand is why celeberties expect to have privacy. when you choose the lifestyle you choose the consequences. Although I do not agree with how idotic the paparazi can be at times, they should take thier shots from afar, where they are not bothering anyone, but to get in someones face, no matter who they are, is just rude, and then to ask them personal questions things that have just been rumoured about them, but they themselves haven't actually said anything, about it, those questions shouldn't be asked. If they want to ask questions they ought to have thier own talk show. Another thing I don't understand is why dispite all the money and the fame, celeberties have, why do they all seem to have that, deep down sadness in thier eyes? its kind of hard to miss, but its like dispite all what they have, they are still not happy, and another thing, is why do a lot of them end up dying, of over dosing or sucide? Thier lifes must be worthless for them to go and end it the way some of them have ended thier lifes?

strength

What makes someone strong? For me a person is strong when they know what they want and they strive to get there, they strive to do what they want to do, they have a goal in mind and they are going to work hard to attain that goal. A strong person is someone who has self confidence, it's not about being rich or poor. its about confidence, its about belelieving in yourself , its about stating your wants and needs and your opinons without fear.