Revenge

Revenge:

When a person seeks revenge for what has been done to them, they are hurting themselves more than they could ever hurt the person that hurt them in the first place.
The best kind of revenge, is walking away, forgetting about the wrong that was done, if that applies----if revenge needs to be seeked----because what happened was horrible beyond belief, than seek the right avenues to do so.
but in a normal case of revenge---than just walk away.
if you were illegally arrested and then released----forgive those who arrested who, and thank God that you were set free,
because you were set free by the Grace and Blessing of God.
Don't seek revenge or retribution on those people, because what happened, happenened, and they are not going to change anything,
and no one is going to help you, because they will probably think, "Why is this person wasting thier time, why can't they just let it go?"
Or whatever they could be thinking.
Revenge is never the anwser, because revenge eats at your heart.

the masses

People care so much about what the masses think. Oh the masses are going to think this and that, if you do this and that. Its always about catering to the massess. Its all about pleasing the masses. Its no longer about pleasing God, or even pleasing ourselves, without displeasing God, its about displeasing God, and displeasing ourselves at the expense of pleasing the massess.
I get sick and tired of people telling me, "Don't do this, the masses will think badly of you."
"Do this the masses will think better of you." But then when it all comes down to it the masses don't really care. because the so called masses have thier own lifes. they don't care what we do with our lifes as long as it doesn't interrupt thier lifes.

thoughts

when you are looking for the negative in life you will no doubt find the negative in life. however if you look for the postive you will find the postive in life.

feelings, people, thoughts

Why do we try to change ourselves for people, while people never seem to change themselves for us? it's like we are supposed to change ourselves for them, but they feel like they need to change themselves for us, because we are just supposed to accept them the way that they are. I say, I am me, I will always be me, either you accept me as I am or you don't, end of story, I am sick and tired of bending over backwards just so people can accept me. I don't see them bending over backwards so I can accept them.
I am going to be myself, I am going to state my feelings as I feel them, and if someone is going to get angry, let them be angry,
because if they had any negative feelings they would let it be known right away.

happiness

I cannot change what has happened in the past, I can only move forward. so to obssess over something that has happened in the past, or has been said in the past, will do me no good. I just have to move on and move forward, and live for the moment.
I have spent too much of my time obssessing over something that has happened in the past, or has been said in the past, when really I should be focusing on the here and now.
if we could all put everything behind our backs and just move forward, actually no, putting things behind our backs would imply that we are still carrying those things with us, no we have to completely let go of them, because we cannot change them, we cannot do anything about them, we have to just let them go, and move on with our lives.
we have to live in the here and now, that is the only way we can be happy.

celeberties

Why is it that people only seem to want to help people they know. or they don't want to help at all. I am all for people helping people that they know, especially if those people really need to be helped. However, what is wrong with helping other people, if the people you know don't need help? Another thing that I never understand. Why is it that celeberties, well not all, but some, get things for free? I know its probably because the manufacturers know that if people see a celebertiy wearing something, its free promotion for them. because people will more likely be inclinded to buy the product if they see a celeberty wearing it. There's nothing wrong with using celeberties to promote something however, I think its wrong that they get those things for free when they can obviously afford to buy those things themselves, so why can't they let other people who make less money and can't afford to buy those things, a chance to model those things? Oh right because people are more likely to buy something if they see a celeberating wearing it. I mean it doesn't matter what it is, unless its something totatly crazy, like wearing slices of meat for example. Another thing I don't understand is why celeberties expect to have privacy. when you choose the lifestyle you choose the consequences. Although I do not agree with how idotic the paparazi can be at times, they should take thier shots from afar, where they are not bothering anyone, but to get in someones face, no matter who they are, is just rude, and then to ask them personal questions things that have just been rumoured about them, but they themselves haven't actually said anything, about it, those questions shouldn't be asked. If they want to ask questions they ought to have thier own talk show. Another thing I don't understand is why dispite all the money and the fame, celeberties have, why do they all seem to have that, deep down sadness in thier eyes? its kind of hard to miss, but its like dispite all what they have, they are still not happy, and another thing, is why do a lot of them end up dying, of over dosing or sucide? Thier lifes must be worthless for them to go and end it the way some of them have ended thier lifes?

strength

What makes someone strong? For me a person is strong when they know what they want and they strive to get there, they strive to do what they want to do, they have a goal in mind and they are going to work hard to attain that goal. A strong person is someone who has self confidence, it's not about being rich or poor. its about confidence, its about belelieving in yourself , its about stating your wants and needs and your opinons without fear.

fiction

I don't understand how the world claims that America and Israel are the highest powers in the world, when it seems to me, that China, Russia, and Iran, are actually the strongest nations in the world. I am probably wrong about that, but that is just what I see, from watching the news and such. especially when it concerns the whole Syria crisis. Everyone is saying or seems to be saying, at least how I personally understand it, is, "Oh we can't do anything, because, these countries, are saying, that we can't." Yet at the very same time, when it came to going into war with other countries, they didn't wait to get permission to go there. but all of a sudden when it comes to someone, killing thier own people, and completely demolishing thier country, so i guess that as long as a person is killing thier own people, the international community can't do anything about it. because it sure seems that way to me. perhaps the only time that these people will get avanged is if thier crazy leader threatens another country. what gets me, is where is the humans right commity, this leader, is breaking all sorts of  laws concerning, human rights. He is literally killing people left right and center, and blaiming it on some "terrorist" groups. Give me a break. Give me and damn break. The only "terriorist" is him and his army of devil worshipers. They've all got to be devil worshippers. because no sane person, can go about killing and maiming people, as if they are nothing. I wish that I could do more, say more,, but nothing I say is going to do much of a difference, so I just pray to god, that these people, get the justice that they deserve. I am speaking about both the victims and the ones who are harming them, killing them, making thier live a living hell. I pray to god that those criminals get the highest degree of punishment, in this life and in the next.

questions

IT is not enough for one side of a marital partnership to want to have a baby, both partners need to want to have a baby, or at least try for a baby.  It needs to be something that both sides mutually agree upon.
I feel that a lot of time, one person will want to have the baby more than the other side. of course there are times when both sides want to have a baby just as much as the other side, meaning that they are both mutually agree on having or like I said before trying for a baby.
A lot of time the husband won't want to have a baby, especially if it's a second marriage and they already have children from the other wife, so they don't want to take on any extra pressures, but this isn't fair to the second wife, because she to deserves to have a family of her own.
Another reason could be that the husband doesn't have the time or the money to take care of the wife in the case that she does wind up pregnant.
To that I say, if the people of Syria, Palastine, and other worn torn countries can manage to have babies, amongst death and dispear, than that exceuse no longer stands.
Sense when did a gift from God become something that we need to avoid?