IT is not enough for one side of a marital partnership to want to have a baby, both partners need to want to have a baby, or at least try for a baby. It needs to be something that both sides mutually agree upon.
I feel that a lot of time, one person will want to have the baby more than the other side. of course there are times when both sides want to have a baby just as much as the other side, meaning that they are both mutually agree on having or like I said before trying for a baby.
A lot of time the husband won't want to have a baby, especially if it's a second marriage and they already have children from the other wife, so they don't want to take on any extra pressures, but this isn't fair to the second wife, because she to deserves to have a family of her own.
Another reason could be that the husband doesn't have the time or the money to take care of the wife in the case that she does wind up pregnant.
To that I say, if the people of Syria, Palastine, and other worn torn countries can manage to have babies, amongst death and dispear, than that exceuse no longer stands.
Sense when did a gift from God become something that we need to avoid?
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